A couple of questions..again.

They’re about a true friendship.

What is a true friendship.?Who are true friends.?What about the fake friendship.?How do you recognize if one person is a true or a fake friend.?

We all have friends.We need them to share our lives with them.Friends are those people who stand by our side in hard times,who encourage us and tell us what are we doing wrong,stop us when we’re doing wrong things.Friends also advice us and inspire us.

Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend.

But I’m gonna describe a good friend first.

A GOOD FRIEND

The very first sign of a very good friend is that we are not worried about courtesies.A good friend is a friend who will not argue with you when you call him(or her) in the middle of the night or very early in the morning.Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. With a good friend we can talk about everything without worrying about what this friend will think. We are open with our good friends in our talk.

And who is a true friend.?

A TRUE FRIEND

A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will be with you anytime he(or she)can-even if that means talking on Messenger or texting or talking on the phone. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return.A true friend is someone you can count on to laugh with you, cry with you and be there for you through good times and bad.

Unfortunately, people do not come with an ability to automatically spot the true friend.But in your lifetime you’ll gain some experience and you’ll be able to recognize who is a true friend.

The difference between a true friend and a buddy is that the true friend will be with you for life.Buddies come and go with school, work and neighborhoods, but a true friendship can survive being separated by continents.

Characteristics of a True Friend

·        Honest and trustworthy: Can they keep a secret? A good friend doesn’t gossip about you. Do they tell they truth? If they lie to you or about you, they are not true friends. At the same time, however, a true friend will always look out for you. If you ask a friend to keep something that’s harmful a secret, like drug use or stealing, they may tell somebody in an attempt to get you help. That’s not betrayal, that’s caring.

·        Good Listener: Do they listen to you or do they only talk about themselves? If you tell them that you don’t eat candy, do they remember that?

·        Loyal: Do they stick with you even when you are grumpy? Are they still your friend when you’re sick or out of money? If someone is gossiping about you, will your friend step in and put a stop to it?

·        Available: Are they available when you need them? If you need to talk instead of going to the movies, are they willing to sit and talk with you?

·        Supportive: A true friend will never make you do something that goes against your moral or religious beliefs. They will not ask you to lie, steal or cheat, or to do drugs or alcohol.

If your friend has these characteristics, you know you have found someone who is a true friend. Be a good friend to this person and the friendship between you two will remain.

What about the fake friends.?

A FAKE FRIEND

Fake friends always come expect a person to come visit, call and see about them, but they don’t want to give in the same effort. They think that’s it okay not to give their effort to put back into the friendship at all, which drains a person out. Fake friends are never there whenever you need them the most. This means they got themselves and other objectives on their minds.This also means they don’t put any type of effort to see if you are okay.Fake friends will not support you and they’ll have a judgemental opinion about you and your achievements.Fake friends don’t keep their word!They always leave another person in the dark about something! This means that they don’t call to say that plans have changed, or they don’t call to say something has happene.

I’m glad that I can say I have alot of friends.But yeah,after I was thinking about what I wrote here,I realized that many of my friends are fake friends.I also realized who my true friends are and I can say I have many of them too.I have more true friends than fake friends and this fact makes me happy.=)

What am I gonna do about my fake friends.?Huh..I’m not gonna argue with them,but I’ll leave them alone.I won’t tell them any secrets and stuff I shouldn’t tell them.

And about the true friends.?I’m happy to have them and I love them all.Now I know I can rely on them and trust them.I can tell them everything because I know they won’t tell anybody.I’m gonna support them and help them too.Like I did before.

“True friends are hard to find, difficult to leave, and impossible to forget.”

“The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can  grow separately without growing apart.”

“A true friend is someone that knows the song of your soul, and  sings it back to you when you have forgotten the words.”

“A true friend is a person who know what you are saying, even if you’re not talking.”

“True friendship is when people know all about you but like you anyway.”

REMEMBER: Many people will walk in and out of you life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.

(Source: therhythmoflife0.blogspot.com)

What’s the secret to happiness.?-This is a quite frequently asked question.And  answering  a question like that isn’t easy at all.

But I’ll try.^_^

First.What is happiness.?

Happiness is a state of mind or feeling characterized by contentment, love, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy. A variety of biological, psychological, religious, and philosophical approaches have striven to define happiness and identify its sources.

->yeah,complicated definition from wikipedia.o,O

But how can I answer you in an easy way.?

Happiness is a feeling and a state of mind when we feel good..For example when we’re with our friends or our family in a funny,good,nice situation.We’re also happy when we know there’s someone for us who supports us in bad times..

Happiness is not a happening; it’s a state of mind. You can have everything in the world and still be miserable. Or you can have relatively little and feel unbounded joy.

Even shorter and less complicated.? Happiness = to feel good

Huh..

And now the hard question…What is the secret to happiness.?

You have to live for today,don’t think about the bad times in past and don’t worry about the future.What will be,will be.

It’s good to have friends-I mean the real friends-the ones who support you and help you with your problems.Share your life with your friends and make it fun.

Help other people when they have trouble so they will help you when you’ll have problems.

One word.Forgive.Forgiveness is very important in our lives.If we’ll forgive,the others will forgive us.And if we’ll keep forgiving,we won’t have that much worries..

Be truely happy with who you are.You’re unique and you shouldn’t care what the others think about you.Be confident about yourself.

You should also learn to make your world right for you in ways that you can change it, and then you’ll learn to accept the things you can’t change.

Be optimistic about the world.You should see the world in its most beautiful colours.

Make peace when others are making war.Solve arguements in a calm way.Of course you have to understand others opinion so you can solve the arguement without shouting and fighting.

Be happy with what you have.

Never regret what you’ve done in the past.It all happens with a reason.

Love and be loved.Take time, today, to spend time with your loved ones, to tell them what they mean to you, to listen to them, and develop your relationship with them.

Have a goal in life.

Experience new things,especially the good ones,but there have to be the bad ones too.But don’t worry about that.It’s the only way to gain experience.

Let go of fears.

Find work that you’re passionate about. Find hobbies that you’re passionate about. Turn off the TV  and get outside and do something that truly engages you.

You must know that some things take more time to change.

Put a smile on your face.It changes how you think.A smile is enough to bright up your day.

Whatever you get, accept it and deal with it.

Problems.?Take action.Problems are good teachers, so learn to love them.

Do your best  and life will support you.

Know what to expect- expect a better you.

Happiness is in the way you think. No one can make you happy except yourself.=)

(Source: therhythmoflife0.blogspot.com)

“There is only one happiness in life,to love and be loved.”

Did you ever hear yourself thinking: “Oh,I feel so good.I must be the happiest person in the whole world.!” .?

But what is the reason for that.?Maybe money,if you’re a materialist.But it’s more possible that LOVE is the reason for your happiness.^^

Love is a feeling.A great feeling when you love someone and this person loves you back.But love isn’t always nice and beautiful.Love can hurt you too-if you love a person and this person doesen’t love you back.
It can be sad,but you’ll get over it.When you find THE ONE,you’ll be happy in love,you’ll enjoy being with a person that you love and you’ll be glad to share your life with him(or her).

How does love feel.?Interesting question..Which is hard to answer..So I’m gonna tell you that way.:

-butterflies in your tummy
-nervousness(when the person you love is around)
-blushing when the person you love is around


These are the main signs that show you’re in love.: )


Love is a very nice thing,when you’re with the right person..You mustn’t be scared to tell a person that you love him(..or her).








“Love is like a mountain hard to climb.But once you get to the top,the view is beautiful.”

(Source: therhythmoflife0.blogspot.com)